What a joy is is to not be on the "In Memory" page. In this time in our lives we have plenty of reasons to be grateful. One of these reasons is the opportunity to go thru our memory banks and search for all the goodness we have all received. At this point many of us, "me included" only have selected memory. We forget any of the rough times, the times that made us who we are and just remember those that we love and those with similar life expectations. A reminder for all, when we see each other and giggle inside thinking that some of us haven't aged smoothly just look in the mirror with an open mind and grin know that is what someone is thinking of me.